Everyone thinks they are above average and normal. Mathematics says half of them are wrong.
I am going to share a few thoughts that will tell you about how you are and how you can immediately be a happier, smarter and better person.
THE USUAL INDICATOR: How did we do in school?
This means very little! We all judge ourselves by how we did in school.
If you did well, that means you understood what SOMEONE ELSE thought
was important for you. Do you know what is important to you?
How many college grads still don’t know what they want?
They learned what others thought was important, not what meant something to them!
How many wives/mothers never got a chance to find out what they wanted from life because their fairy tale of marriage and children came right away and that was the end of their growth.
I dated women like that whose husbands tired of them and left.
They were boring and I didn’t waste time on them. They could
only talk about their terrible ex-husbands and their perfect children.
They had no lives…just a past.
NEXT: Are you happy?
If you’re not happy, you are mentally challenged!
There have to be 100 million miracles just for you to open your
eyes in the morning and you can’t find one thing to be grateful for.
That, my poor friend, is sad!
Here’s the good news:
YOU CAN’T BE GRATEFUL AND UNHAPPY AT THE SAME TIME.
This means you merely have to CHOOSE to look at life through new
lenses and you will be instantly healed of your illness!
LIFE is a BLESSING! Learn this and prosper, argue it and suffer!
End of that story!
WORK: Although not everyone has to work, those who do often
spend their days suffering through the drudgery. NOT necessary!
It doesn’t matter what the work is. I sold dirty, old, used machines
for 52 years and made great friends, helped lots of people and
developed a sense of pride and received respect.
It was NOT the job that mattered…IT WAS WHAT YOU BRING
TO THE JOB THAT MATTERS!!!
IMPORTANT: We are here to develop an energy and consciousness.
The frequency of the energy makes us identifiable even from a
distance and our consciousness is what makes us who we are. (This is what we mean when we say she has good vibes.) Not enough people take the time to raise their consciousness. Even some church-goers will go on Sunday so someone else will tell them how to think.
NOW… MORE KEY ELEMENTS:
INTEGRITY – What is integrity? The natural habit of doing what is right.
It means trading laziness or fear for the highest and best.
It is having honest and healthy opinions and WALKING YOUR TALK.
FEAR: You’ve been told that the opposite of fear is courage.
That is not the only truth. The opposite of fear is also LOVE.
We’ve all heard people say that they would die for a loved one.
What they are saying is that LOVE REMOVES EVERY WRONG MOTIVE!
ACCOUNTABILITY: Really you ask? This a major issue?
ACCOUNTABILITY IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A REAL LIFE
AND A WASTEFUL ILLUSION OF LIFE!
“Blame” is how we leave reality and hide in the shadows. It is VERY low level consciousness and prevents our growth. Why do we blame others?
That makes us a victim. We imagine the victim is a good person.
The victim is someone who takes no accountability for their life.
UNTIL WE RECOGNIZE THAT IT IS OUR THINKING THAT HAS
GOTTEN US WHERE WE ARE IN THIS LIFE, WE WILL BE HELPLESS
When I found out I had cancer 25 years ago, I said to myself:
“Todd, if you are powerful enough to create this with your own
negative thinking, you are surely powerful enough to dismiss it.”
This experience changed my life! Today I am not afraid of life.
It is easier to trust God and live a free, full, and rich life (Like the title of my book).
We don’t need GUILT NOR SHAME because we never really live in the past.
We cannot undo our mistakes from the past, but we can learn to avoid repeating them, replacing them with sound possibilities.
Have NO FEAR OF THE FUTURE because the future doesn’t exist!
We are here, now… we are never in the future. We are never in the past.
NO FEAR OF THE FUTURE MEANS THE END OF WORRY!
Think about that!!!
MONEY DOESN’T BRING HAPPINESS.
HAPPINESS BRING SATISFACTION…WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE REALLY LOOKING FOR.
YOU DON’T BRING THE MONEY YOU WASTED YOUR LIFE CHASING
WHEN YOU DIE…YOU BRING YOUR SOUL (CONSCIOUSNESS).
BUILD THAT AND LIVE A HAPPY LIFE EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE…
AND HEREAFTER AS WELL!
Why am I happy? I don’t know if I am average, above average or below average…
because it doesn’t matter! All that matters in this life is that we live our lives with love in our hearts.
This is my final point for today. Complaint, blame, criticism, comparison,
judgment, condescending, censure, commiseration are all CRAP!
Their only purpose is to make others less than God’s perfect children of light.
These qualities perpetuate an illusion of a clumsy god who makes imperfect
people and punishes them for their stupidity.
THAT, MY FRIENDS, IS NOT THE GOD I REVERE and WORSHIP.
Here is Jesus’ instruction to live a rich, full life – Matthew 22:35-37
Love the Lord Your God with all your heart soul and mind…AND…
Love your neighbor as YOURSELF!
My prayer is that you will read this post, share it and live it.
I promise you a lifetime of happiness if you will.
Love, light and blessings,
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